Beauty Privilege & The Solitary Individual: The Coming Dominance of Female Centered Post- Patriarchial Society

If you're anything like me you spend most of your time alone at least all the time when you aren't being forced to socialize at work. If I could do my job remotely instead of in person and avoid all that human contact I would. The level of self isolation I prefer is that of a wounded animal that runs off to hide right before it dies. Let me die in peace, just don't consume my body.

I used think that my feelings on the subject of being alone were a bit unusual. But not anymore. The solitary individual is the new normal. Probably most of you who are reading/listening to this are single. And in the future at least 80 percent of you will be unattached.

Pretty privilege 

I was watching a Tik Tok video last night right before bed. I can't more strongly recommend against you doing so. I guess if you hate sleep and you enjoy feeling angry after watching stupid content from stupid people. 

In my case I watched a video where a chubby blonde complained about losing her pretty privilege. 

Oh, Boo-hoo. 

I don't know if it's the fact that I'm walking around with 5 more IQ points than you just ticking away like a time bomb, but sometimes I just have to explode at you with a rant. So here it is. 

WELCOME TO NORMAL LIFE BITCH 

So the video in question begins with a young woman in her mid 20's explaining that she has an eating disorder. During the pandemic she was away from her job and worked on controlling her disorder. She ended up gaining a lot of weight and becoming conventionally unattractive. Then she has a breakdown and cries uncontrollable sobs for herself on social media. 

Am I supposed to feel sorry for you? What because you're an unattractive emotional basket case who's beauty privledge got revoked? Welcome to the real world! The way you are being treated is the way the rest of us uglies have been treated our whole lives. You were just too pretty, too self absorbed and stuck up to notice. Thing is your beauty privilege protected you against the way most people behave around people, especially those they view as basically servants. When people go out to drink they want to be served. They aren't interested in the "the staff" as persons unless the servant can show them that they are not just a server. 

No one cares about anyone else. 

The rise of self checkout machines and other automated services have desensitized us to interactions with our fellow humans. Given the choice most of us (especially the younger generation) would choose not to interact with other people. I know the only time I interact with humans is if they have something I want. Like you are either sexually attractive to me, or you have something I desire like food or resources and I can't just push a button to get them. Otherwise, whenever I encounter you, you are simply an obstacle in the way of me getting the stuff I want. It's not deliberate attack against you. Most of this in an unconscious mechanism working behind the scenes of our mental constructs. 

Unattractive women who complain about the way men treat them are actually just experiencing the world the way men are treated in it, and they are horrified by the  experience of being a man. 

If you are a sexually attractive woman you have something other men want. Even other women grant you some respect because they know you are a fierce competitor for attention and resources. Men treat women they are attracted to with special care on the off chance that the woman will respond in kind. 

The bartender wondered why she never received eye contact after she got fat. When she greeted customers she no longer got enthusiastic replies. People simply gave their orders. "Two Bud Lights, please."

It seemed no one was interested in anything about her except her looks. And somehow this suprised this woman. Strange that customers who meet you while you perform a service job take no real interest in you the person. Why? Because they believe you are there to take an order or perform a function. Unless you have some other special status people aren't going to bother to get to know you. When I ring up your groceries no one cares or even needs to know about my special interest in reading secondary literature on 19th century philosophers. And honestly, why would they? They just want their groceries and they want to leave. 

We all want to live alone and be left alone. 

The bartender insists that one of the reasons people are rude and cruel to her is people fat hate. Yes, fat hate exists. But that's not the only reason people ignored her. It isn't just class based hatred of the working staff. Though plenty of people are dismissive of working people. I believe the real reason is that people are slowly socially evolving to become less interdependent on other people. Which means people give less thought to others. The pandemic has intensified a trend that has been growing for decades. We all want to live alone and not be bothered. There's been a trend towards people living alone in the USA. About 15 percent of Americans now live alone and that number has doubled over the last 50 years. It would be higher too, if more of us could afford to live alone. Some experts believe this tendency to live alone is actually increasing poverty and reducing affordable housing.

All Women Have Beauty Privileges

Complaining about no longer having beauty privileges is ironic when you are a woman. As a man I would like to have the problem of being just an ugly woman. Because even ugly women have privileges that men don't get. Women are trusted by God to protect and dish out the vagina. Because access to vagina is so important to men, most men {aka straight} bend over backwards to be nice women. Women must put up with advances they don't want, leering, objectification, and a host of other ills that you'll find covered on more female centric women's studies classes. It isn't the purpose of this blog to cover those stories. Instead we cover the stories people don't want to cover. Like Lady Privilege.™

Since the times of men draping their clean riding coats over mud holes, men have given women Lady Privilege.™ Women get social status and acknowledgement that being male does not afford you.

We've all read the statistics on attractiveness and the studied the halo effect in sociology 101 classes, so I don't feel the need to explain too much here. But basically the more attractive you are the more money you make and the nicer people are to you. People also assume you have qualities that you may not posses such as kindness. The difference in how we treat the good looking vs the ugly is analagous to how women and men are treated differently. 

And in particular it is the solitary man that is treated poorly. A man without a wife or family is basically a loser that society has little use for. Think of the juvenile male elephant that has been thrust out of the pack. In the case of many juvenile human males we have thrust them not simply from eye contact or respect for their individual personalities, but from society. They are thrown to the streets to commit crime, or to the sad loneliness of the mother's basement where they dribble out hate from keyboards on 4 Chan and other forums of misogyny.

UGLY GUY SYNDROME & THE SOLITARY MALE 

In a strange twist of fate my particular self is an exception to many of the generalizations I make about solitary men. Unlike my incel brothers, who are often virgins, I've actually had sex. If I pursued relationships, I could probably worm my way into the heart of some tired middle aged woman with her fatherless children in tow. Like most of the ugly, solitary, incels though I've discovered that human companionship is not worth it.

I bring being single up so much to get you to understand that the future is solitary for us all. That the men trapped in basements and jerking to the hub are your future too. The future contains sex robots delivered from Amazon. Work from home and pandemics that kill the poor and those that go outside.

You probably don't believe me about your future. Maybe you're female and you've always benefited from the advantages of being a carrier of vagina. Being connected to society. The attention. Even when it's unwanted attention alerts you to your value and the desire society has for you. 

You might think that as a nearly attractive woman you are protected against experiences of being left out of society. That only the basement dwellers with their unwashed hair, bizarre hentai porn addictions, awkward social interactions, and general undesirableness will be deemed unfit for society. 

But you couldn't be more wrong. 

As industrial economy continues its collapse and good jobs disappear, more men will drop out of work and then society. That means they'll become less attractive to women. Fewer women will find suitable mates. Women will act out of desperation  from the new dating conventions and rely on dating apps and internet dating where they will fall victim to Chad's who only want to use women for sex, and when burned women will use the promise of their promiscuity to attract simps they can take advantage of. 

As I have discussed previously, simping will become the new pimping.™ The few alpha males left will continue on as if nothing has changed. The mass of men will drift towards some kind of MEN GOING THERE OWN WAY. And many subordinate males will drift towards worshiping and empowering females. All of society is headed to female supremacy. The forces behind it are the Breakdown of Western Culture and Values combined with a devastating decline in male hormones resulting in men developing the Alan Alda Syndrome. The Alan Alda syndrome of being the nice guy will become accepted by society not just because the alpha male is dying, but because social structure will not allow anything else. 

THE FUTURE IS FEMALE 

If you're female you will be wading into the pool of hyper-hypergamy. 80 to 90 percent of you will chase the top 20 or 10 percent of men. Most of you will fail. You'll get knocked up and become single moms. Bitter and despondent you'll turn to the social contagion of bi-sexuality out of yearning for companionship or the seemingly endless plasticity of female sexuality. (Remember the monkey sex studies anyone?) Then you'll become disillusioned by females because nothing is ever good enough for women and your biological instincts will demand to be dominated on occasion by the stick of masculinity. Eventually most of these pseudo-relationships will wither and die. Most women will date sporadically if at all. 

THE DAWN OF MATRIARCHY 

But a few women will take on a number of subordinate males and form a new society. A number of intelligent entrepreneurs will aquire subordinated males and gather them in. They will board together. The males will be submissive. They will give all their income to the Domme of the House. 

She will continue to use sex work to earn passive income from OnlyFans® and offer Venmo in her bio on her Tinder app. And she will turn her subs to prostitution to make the rest of her cash. She will convince or force her stable of subs through hypno brain washing and orgasm denial into watching other extreme pornography that will only further her control. 

A recently discovered manuscript detailed exactly how one domme managed to aquire and control six sub males. She began by playing domination hypnosis recordings at night to her subordinate males at just under audible levels. The use of hypnotic suggestion planted the seeds to gain rapid mind control over her "stable."

AN ALTERNATIVE HISTORY OF A FEMALE DOMINATED HANDMAID'S TALE

The manuscript which reportedly was designed with the purpose to train young initiate dommes on how to set up a 'household' as a pretext towards setting up a new female dominated society. Just think 'Handmaid's Tale' but with women in charge. 

It begins with hypnosis and moves banally through things like edge masturbation. The dommes are instructed to keep the subs in a dark enclosed room with headphones on and a tablet playing porn. The edge masturbation sessions start at a few hours a day, but eventually will last the entire time the sub is not working or sleeping.  The sub will be induced by drugs like caffeine, alcohol, marijuana, or even harder drugs. Perhaps PCP. 

The EXTREME PORNOGRAPHY will cycle through all sorts and various kinds. But each session and each kind of video will have a specific purpose. 

1. Edge Masturbation. Edging fogs the mind and delivers endorphins allowing the mind to be controlled.
2. Findom and Femdom. Extreme pornography that teaches extreme pro female viewpoints. 
3. Humiliation porn. Pornography that degrades and abuses the male breaking down defenses and ego. 
4. Forced bi-sexuality and forced gender emasculation. Removal of masculine traits. 
5. Ruined orgasm pornography. Porn that devalues male pleasure and the penis.
6. Castration videos. Porn that ends with the male hormone gone. Sometimes includes the removal of the penis. 

After one has subjected their group of males to these brainwashing techniques the dommes control is complete.  Once women gain control of the family and household of subs it is only a matter of time that women gain complete control of society.*

As one can see by my sketch of a possible female centered future, complaints about Beauty Privilege from the point of the view of the formerly beautiful are nonsensical. 

First, asking for advantages that are  unearned and immoral is shameful.  Women can't lose the Beauty Privilege anyway because they always have it over men.  Women misunderstand the role of beauty and attractiveness in the games of dating that play between the sexes.  The hyper-hypergamy of modern times leaves most men alone and worthless, and the upcoming future will dissatisfy most women to the point that they will initiate a non-democratic female version of the handmaid's tale where men will be forced to shed their masculinity and worship women. Just another reason we need to ban women's studies; otherwise, we must surrender to the female wave that is coming for men. 

*I have detailed the society I would expect to come about on my twitter account through a work of fiction. I am unable to locate the exact tweet.